What Sort of Career Should I Follow?

Dear Hoping,
Darling, the first thing Esmeralda must tell you is – Do Nothing Just Yet! You seem more anxious about your current situation than is warranted. You do not say what education you have or what career skills you are using but Esmeralda senses you have interesting work. Esmeralda does not see what is going stale about the work you are doing so before you leave – make sure you know where you’re going, and for what purpose.

You are the type of person who will want to do work of importance, and to achieve a certain amount of recognition for your abilities. You must remember that what the world considers prestigious may not hold the most promise for you personally. Look for something that suits your temperament and abilities and you will gain more recognition that you would from a job which is high-profile but empty for you.

At this time in your life you are drawn to that which is exciting and possibly glamourous. You would be well-placed in a number of areas in the beauty industry, which could be exciting enough to hold your attention now. Styling hair, aesthetics work – you might find these areas interesting. Either of those skills could, in time, make it possible for you to own your own business. You have the strength for that, and also – you don’t like being “managed” yourself. A career which allows you great freedom will suit you best.
In this capacity you could partner with a friend and open a salon. You can be a team player when you trust the other person but you must choose a partner wisely.
If the actual doing of the service does not interest you, you could consider promoting or selling products in those industries. This would be especially appealing if it allowed you to travel or come into contact with people from other areas.
You ask about working with your family. That might suit you on a limited basis, meaning that there must be structure in your job description and the family’s expectations of you must be clearly spelt out.

Someday you will be very good at business and management but you need more experience than you have now. If you don’t have the education you feel you need for good career options – get it now! Put in the work that is necessary so that you have the skills to match your talents. You will be glad you did.