Is This the Man I Should Marry?
Dear Intuitive Esmeralda,
It’s very urgent so if you could please answer as soon as possible I would be very grateful to you. I have recently started liking a man who wishes to marry me. I don't know whether he likes me or not but we talk a lot and spend a lot of time together. Could you help in this matter? Am I meant to marry this man?
Dear Marriage Minded,
First of all My Darling the time is not yet right for you to marry anybody!! In a perfect world Esmeralda would say WAIT. You may feel ready, and you may be receiving pressure to marry, but the time is not entirely right for you. You will only see this as time goes by, for as things unfold you will be able to gain perspective and realize the truth of what Esmeralda is telling you. Esmeralda is seeing that in approximately 2 years’ time, another man comes along who will feel more right to you and who will honor you as you should be honored.
This current man likes you, and most especially he desires you. However – he is the type who is more taken with himself than anyone else on the planet. Clearly – you are more interested in him than he is in you – and that is not the ideal position for you to be in. You are physically and emotionally drawn to him and therefore vulnerable, far more vulnerable than he.
You have painted a rather romantic picture of him. You are looking at this person with rose-colored glasses, and he seems more attractive than he will appear in the long run. Perhaps this is because you are looking to marry at this time, and you lack objectivity. Esmeralda knows it is hard but truly My Dear, you will be best served by taking things more slowly and staying in the driver’s seat. Don’t give your power away to any man!
Look among your friends and relations and see if you can find a man who truly respects his wife and loves her in the way you hope to be loved. Knowing such a man will give you a more objective view of any suitor you may have. Romantic thoughts can so easily cloud the true picture of a potential partner, and witnessing a happy marriage can offer a useful point of comparison.
Take your time My Dear, and be assured that all will be well if you do.
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